Companion pets, such as cats, dogs and birds, form not only strong bonds with the humans in their lives, but also other pets in the household. Pets do best in a situation where their social and emotional environment is intact.  Unfortunately, when a pet becomes ill or passes away, this can sometimes dramatically change the behavior of the surviving pet or pets.

Some pets will lose interest in food or playtime if these were shared activities with their housemate.  Some will actively search for the housemate and can even exhibit anxiety-type behavior, such as vocalizing and panting.  Pets will ALWAYS pick up on your emotional state, especially during times of stress and loss. 

Here are some of ideas of what you can do for them:

Increase Activity. Take an extra walk as a treat, engage in games and activities, find NEW activities in an effort to lift the emotional state, or get them a Pup Cup!  If increasing mobility is not an option due to age or illness, listening to uplifting instrumental music and even reading aloud to your pet may help distract them from their sadness. Pet strollers can also be a wonderful idea for older pets, and  it will get your pet and your family outside as a distraction and exercise. Spending time outdoors and in nature is a great way to calm the mind. 

Maintain Feeding Schedules.  Even if your pet does not show interest in food after the loss of a housemate, it is still important to help them maintain a normal feeding schedule.  You can, in the short-term, give a grieving pet a favorite treat or other food that they don’t normally get in order to help maintain their appetite.  Our team also has options to help your pet maintain an interest in diet during this difficult time.

Extra Love and Attention. Ensure that your pet knows how much they are loved.  Give extra belly rubs and head pats.  Try to teach your pet a new trick to help them emotionally engage with you.  If they choose not to interact intermittently, give them some space to process that their housemate is no longer there.  If your pet is exhibiting symptoms such as extreme lethargy, lack of appetite and severe anxiety, please consult your vet or schedule a visit with our team for treatment options.

Please remember that your surviving pets have suffered a loss, too.  They will sense your sadness and their own at the same time. It is also important to take care of yourself and be kind to yourself; grieving takes time as it does too for your pets.  Indeed, you and your pets can rely on one another to grieve the loss of a housemate, hopefully strengthening your bond and working toward a happier tomorrow.